Thursday, October 27, 2011

Seriously in stresssssssss

很多东西烦，忙.....

如果有钱，就算一个人也好，会打算去外面走一走，我指的外面是出国。

我不曾遇过这么烦的事情，开始是功课，二是父母的话 （影响力最大的一个）

刚刚问了爸爸的 permission ....过年与他和他的家人去旅行，haiz...问了一大堆的东西。有时候自己传统就好，为什么要‘消’在我们身上？

问题1 ：你去见他的家长，为什么他没有来见我们？ （明知道他在国外，怎样见面）
问题2 ：你已经确定这个人了？（很烦，不要问这个）
问题3 ：多少岁？（同岁）他说：最好找大几岁的人，比较成熟 （很烦）
问题4 ：你怎么知道他有上进心？（又是一个很烦的问题）

你喜欢的为什么要apply 在我身上？70 年代吗？

有时候，家人的问题导致我在犹豫着，他是对的人或错的人？ 同时也导致了我不敢放太多的希望在他身上。

（亲爱的EBI朋友，能否给点意见？based on ur experience..我实在是与父母沟通不到关于这话题。 ）



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  1. Andy28 October, 2011 02:44

    wat does he mean by self-motivated?

    wait la, if i got come back, i go chat chat a bit with him... he also worried for u mah since he still dunno me...
    this how a parent care for their children...

    u must appreciate this ah.. at least ur dad take effort to ask rather than just ignore n leave u to it ah...

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  2. Balsamine28 October, 2011 23:48

    self motivated mean u got dream in the future anot? or just ''lai lai han'' no big dream at all, useless man..

    haiz..worried oso dun act like tis ma..make me vry unhappy and stress...

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  3. Andy29 October, 2011 01:47

    u no tell him how big my dream is meh??
    i tell u so many of my future plans, u no tell him meh?? or u forgot everything liao is it??

    tell him mah.... u just sit there quietly n no comment back anything, u langsung no remember anything about me meh???

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  4. A30 October, 2011 01:18

    Why no reply de???? no check ur own blog d???
    call me check daily but sendiri no check????
    PIKU la!!!!!!

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  5. Balsamine30 October, 2011 11:38

    how to tell him the future stuffs??
    in their mind, they will only think of we are childish...lagi kena scold..

    he went out and saw lot of bad example, guy tipu gul..tat's y he worried u tipu me..

    SIFAT LAH!!!!

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  6. ANdy31 October, 2011 03:51

    then u shud act more adult n tell it to him seriously la.... be convincing...

    show him that his daughter is a grown-up women liao... not the xiao mei mei anymore lo.... =D

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  7. Balsamine31 October, 2011 22:47

    ceh..how i act ah..
    in the mind, children will always like child..even if i married liao..

    they din ask more now..wait when u come back n convincing them lah..especially my dad vry ''nan gao''..gambatteh...

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  8. Andy01 November, 2011 04:35

    =.=...
    u all problem throw to me de....
    wat problem u gonna settle urself???
    =.=

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  9. Balsamine01 November, 2011 22:57

    halo..u think u vry good ma??
    i oso go met ur family alone ler..

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  10. Andy03 November, 2011 05:26

    atleast i call u go ther enjoy leh...
    not go there receive pressure leh...
    XD

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  11. Balsamine03 November, 2011 21:59

    enjoy but i very gan cheong and pressure ler..
    >< u und anot???
    i dun care, come back liao..YOU HAVE TO bring me go back...

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  12. Andy08 November, 2011 05:49

    yea la yea la...
    never see ppl so excited to see parents de...
    haih...

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  13. Nicole08 November, 2011 11:57

    not excited lah..
    stable liao ma..c liao u can throw me away..keke

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  14. Andy10 November, 2011 05:21

    c liao then can throw u away??

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  15. Nicole10 November, 2011 21:57

    *** u cant throw me away..c liao parents ma..

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  16. Andy11 November, 2011 03:50

    ceh.. wat if i throw me away pula???
    since i not yet see ur parents...

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  17. Balsamine14 November, 2011 21:25

    then u rugi lah...hehehe

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  18. Andy15 November, 2011 04:24

    ==.... means u got plan wan to do that??

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  19. Balsamine15 November, 2011 22:54

    no lah..ci sin meh...cannot run liao lah..

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  20. Andy18 November, 2011 03:56

    u cannot run or i cannot run liao?? say clear a bit ler...

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  21. Balsamine21 November, 2011 00:19

    i cannot run lah,i met ur family adi ma..

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  22. Andy22 November, 2011 04:36

    ceh... i havent met ur parents, means u still can fei me la....

    not say u run ler..

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  23. Balsamine22 November, 2011 12:11

    hehehe...
    so in conlcusion..
    come back liao must come c my parents..

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  24. Andy23 November, 2011 05:14

    c lor... dare say dunwan see meh???
    later u come my house kidnap me back to ur place ah...
    takut nyer....

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  25. Balsamine23 November, 2011 21:14

    i m more nervous than u..
    u noe my parents so yim jim de la..
    better prepare well..

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  26. andy24 November, 2011 05:01

    bring fruit basket??
    wear smart smart??

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  27. Balsamine24 November, 2011 23:21

    UK souvenir,biscuits basket..
    tidy & smart lo..
    rambut dun cover forehead or eyes..

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  28. andy25 November, 2011 06:23

    yea la yea la.... so many requirements..
    susah betul...

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  29. Balsamine27 November, 2011 23:56

    i m vry unhappy liao..
    u shud not think susah...><

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  30. andy29 November, 2011 04:32

    haih... susah for both of us lor...

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  31. Nicole30 November, 2011 00:08

    u still say susah?? ><

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  32. andy01 December, 2011 03:07

    hahaha....
    it never was easy...

    when u meet my parents, was it easy?

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  33. Balsamine01 December, 2011 23:38

    ANDY FU, I VRY ANGRY NOW!
    STILL SUSAH??

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  34. andy02 December, 2011 04:16

    u always gimme pressure, mai susah lo...

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